Late night thought

was hanging out with my friend just now
and I told my friend
I wanted to go camping alone
but I couldn't make it because there's no public transport to reach there
I told him my sister scolded me for that
for having the thought of traveling alone
because I gonna make my parents worried and all those stuff yea
I thought he will say something like "it's okay, you can make it in the future"
but what did he said instead are
"maybe you will lose your life by doing that"
"you need to think of your family"
"you are still young, you are still irrational"
"you not even finish your studies, 毛都没生齐(this is really rude)"
I replied him it's just that we are different people and we have different mindset.
But he still insist I am immature.

Yup I agree that it's not that safe.
I admit that I am still young.
However, I don't think these should be the reasons for stopping someone to travel alone.
You are not safe since you step out from your house (or maybe in your house as well)
It could be unsafe anywhere anything
People think that the place is safe because it's their comfort area, it's the place they familiar with
but you can't deny that there are a lot of hidden dangers
what I am trying to say here is
You can't always stay in your housing area
You can't always rely on someone's accompany
You gotta explore the world and try out new things
You can't always stick with your family friend bf gf
YOU ARE AN INDIVIDUAL
I am not saying that you don't need to care about how others feel
but it's your life
Just try to do what you really want to do and be who you really want to be
and care about how the others think if possible (not all the time)

And ya, respect the others' opinion
don't just simply think people is immature or childish
just because they don't care about what the others think as much as you do
it's just different people has a different personality
eg: maybe there are some in the adventurous bunch and you are in the orderly bunch
There is no right or wrong
eg: There are some people that like gambling and some just don't
You can't say that gambling is morally wrong
you can't say those who don't like gambling because they scared to lose

You definitely have the right to have opinion
But you don't have the right to judge one's opinion
and even bash someone for not having the same opinion as you

People are born to be different.
All you gotta do is embrace the difference.